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Financial Matters:
- If there is a will, the executor will be responsible for carrying out all the financial decisions:
Obtain Grant of Probate (gather assets, pay all outstanding debts including funeral expenses, inheritance taxes, and distribute the rest as written in the will)
If there is no will, the closest relative or surviving spouse will be responsible for all financial matters (seek legal advice if unsure):
- Seek legal advice for large estates
- Local Probate Office will have the forms you will need to obtain Letters of Administration (include all financial information on form
- Include the following financial information on the forms, then bring the forms back to the Probate Office with the death certificate)
- Gather all financial information of loved one and learn what was owned by them (do not include joint accounts - such as private bank accounts, trusts, stocks and bonds, personal property, business assets
- Find out about monies owed to your loved one (includes worker salaries)
- Note beneficiaries on insurance policies
- Find out what other payments are owed by your loved one (ie: mortgage, utilities, credit cards, etc.) Some creditors may cancel debts if they have an insurance clause.
- Distribute your loved ones assets
Hire a Funeral Director (they will be responsible for all aspects of funeral, including cremations & burials). Some things to think about:
- Decide on a time and place for the funeral.
- Select pallbearers.
- Be sure to bring someone with you for support and clear thinking.
- Decide whether you will accept flowers (if so, make plans for after the service), or decide on another memorial for donations (ie: charity).
- Prepare a list of people to thank and acknowledge for their (calls, flowers). Many Funeral Directors perform this service.
- Will you have a burial or cremation?
If Burial:
- Ask questions if you are unsure of anything; there are many things you may prefer not to do.
- The following are some of the many fees involved in a burial (ask Funeral Director if unsure): Cost of grave, cost of digging the grave, fees for burial, service, music, headstone & inscription, funeral director, etc.
If Cremation:
- Services are short, and you may feel rushed.
- You will be asked whether you want to keep the ashes (in an urn), or have them scattered in a special place.
Invite others to your home or another place after the funeral service.
- Make arrangements for food and drinks.
Other people to contact if your loved one was living alone: utility companies, landlord or mortgage company, post office, neighbors, etc.
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